tkip
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Try to make this brief. I was friends with 2 women at work. Both are cousins. You can probably see what's coming already. I confided in one that I had concerns about her younger cousin. Stuff along the lines of behaviour in general and loose attitudes towards sex.
Her cousin has bragged about this at work on occasion.
I know and she knows that her cousin sleeps around especially on vacations with strange men usually when there is alcohol involved. She is extremely bratty, self asborbed, plays men like crazy and tries to get freebies out of them and acts badly at work in general.
Been suspended and kicked off her floor. Lots of trash talking, swearing in general. Anyway. So recently, I found out my younger co-worker was planning on taking off for South America to teach. Funny thing is that her english skills are non-existant. She can't spell or put a sentence together properly on paper.
I really started to worry about the trouble she could get into since I KNOW about her reckless nature and attempts to take advantage of men. So I confided in her cousin about my concerns and she gave me advice. I know, not the best idea in the world.
I obviously learned something this week. Keep your mouth shut, let people make their own mistakes and just nod your head or leave the room.
A couple of days later, the 3 of us are on diner break and I tell then about something disturbing that happened to a friend I knew years ago. (my friend had worked as a bartender at a local strip club to pay her nursing tutition and one night was verbally attacked by cops in the lot as she left the club)
We argued and it became intense. To be honest I've becoming increasingly frustrated with the crap coming out of their mouths leading up to this....
My co-worker insisted that my friend or any women working there had it coming and this is what you get for working in a whorehouse. I bolted from the room in disgust. She talks just as bad as her cousin. Get them together and its pretty foul language that comes out.
She was cool to me later on and my younger friend told me I was out of line and it was all my fault. She also 100% supported what her cousin had said which is funny since she herself suffered the exact same treatment clubbing this summer.
Standing in line with her friends and a few guys called them whores for what they were wearing out of nowhere. Nasty comments were made to them. She was outraged, insulted and humilated.
I fumed at home and sent messages to her online about her cousin's bad behaviour and the insult to my friend and she finally cracked. Informed me that I was completely wrong, my friend had it coming and that she knew I had ratted on her to her cousin about my "concerns".
The rest is history. Obviously we're not friends anymore and while I know I created this situation, both women ratted me out when they were pissed.
Question..........![Confused :confused: :confused:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Who's wrong and right in this scenerio? Friends are telling me I was stupid for talking with the older cousin but think both women are trash anyway. And it was pointed out that what they did was no different what I did. Basically we all ratted each other out because of anger.
In the end, we all acted badly but for different reasons........ Does this make sense?
Her cousin has bragged about this at work on occasion.
I know and she knows that her cousin sleeps around especially on vacations with strange men usually when there is alcohol involved. She is extremely bratty, self asborbed, plays men like crazy and tries to get freebies out of them and acts badly at work in general.
Been suspended and kicked off her floor. Lots of trash talking, swearing in general. Anyway. So recently, I found out my younger co-worker was planning on taking off for South America to teach. Funny thing is that her english skills are non-existant. She can't spell or put a sentence together properly on paper.
I really started to worry about the trouble she could get into since I KNOW about her reckless nature and attempts to take advantage of men. So I confided in her cousin about my concerns and she gave me advice. I know, not the best idea in the world.
I obviously learned something this week. Keep your mouth shut, let people make their own mistakes and just nod your head or leave the room.
A couple of days later, the 3 of us are on diner break and I tell then about something disturbing that happened to a friend I knew years ago. (my friend had worked as a bartender at a local strip club to pay her nursing tutition and one night was verbally attacked by cops in the lot as she left the club)
We argued and it became intense. To be honest I've becoming increasingly frustrated with the crap coming out of their mouths leading up to this....
My co-worker insisted that my friend or any women working there had it coming and this is what you get for working in a whorehouse. I bolted from the room in disgust. She talks just as bad as her cousin. Get them together and its pretty foul language that comes out.
She was cool to me later on and my younger friend told me I was out of line and it was all my fault. She also 100% supported what her cousin had said which is funny since she herself suffered the exact same treatment clubbing this summer.
Standing in line with her friends and a few guys called them whores for what they were wearing out of nowhere. Nasty comments were made to them. She was outraged, insulted and humilated.
I fumed at home and sent messages to her online about her cousin's bad behaviour and the insult to my friend and she finally cracked. Informed me that I was completely wrong, my friend had it coming and that she knew I had ratted on her to her cousin about my "concerns".
The rest is history. Obviously we're not friends anymore and while I know I created this situation, both women ratted me out when they were pissed.
Question..........
Who's wrong and right in this scenerio? Friends are telling me I was stupid for talking with the older cousin but think both women are trash anyway. And it was pointed out that what they did was no different what I did. Basically we all ratted each other out because of anger.
In the end, we all acted badly but for different reasons........ Does this make sense?