or live in condos.
you can easily prep and make serious high quality meals for families. all the counter things (aside from a coffee maker) are gimmicks. you don't need a stand mixer, you don't need a deep fryer, a bread maker, a food processor. You can buy a small hand emulsion blender that fits in a drawer. my vegetable spiralizer was tiny as well. All those things make things a bit simpler but great cooking was done before they existed in household kitchens. I'm not in a condo anymore so now i have some of these things (stand mixer), but they certainly weren't necessary.