Says who? On what do you base such a claim?
If you've been reading through the replies here, several people in this thread, on this site, own cars, but also don't use them to commute and are regular transit users and/or cyclists.
I didn't see any evidence of self-hatred.
You do come off as needlessly aggressive on this subject. I don't see anyone saying 'ban all cars' or 'drivers are evil'. What people are saying is there is not any room for a substantial increase in the number of cars in the GTA, and in downtown in particular. That other modes of transport (walking, biking, TTC, GO etc.) need to be prioritized and invested in; and that parking, in general should be provided less and at a greater cost to drivers/parkers such that more money is available not only to build, but to operate more transit, with better frequency at lower prices.
That's not a war on anyone. Its a position supported by evidence. You're welcome to have a different preference, but in saying as much, you ought to be able to support how that preference is feasible when, irrespective of one's preferences, there is no plan or money to widen the DVP or the Gardiner, local roads can be quite congested at peak times, and when a housing crisis, if nothing else, demands we not give over acres of land to parking.
Said by a car-owner, who drives; and also takes transit.