My point? Put any new separated east/west bike lanes south of Bloor where the crazies don't congregate, like Gerrard, Dundas and Queen. If that makes me a vitrol spewer, I'm perfectly fine with that. I may not use today's progressive vocabulary , but I still want supporting housing, shelters and harm reduction for our least fortunate. But that doesn't mean I can't advocate for putting bike lanes in places where there is the least disruption to folks who just want to cycle the city in safety.
Here's the problem. You're not fine w/that.
For the simple reason, you have a pov, which you would like to see delivered on; that requires persuading others in most cases. If your language causes people to tune out your arguments, to invalidate them simply because you made them, then you lose; you're POV goes nowhere.
You often have really good points; but you can't seem to resist the desire to express them in the harshest possible way.
Believe others are 'snowflakes' if you wish; but understand those 'snowflakes' are key to getting what you want.
Not offending them, serves your purpose.
Frankly, like many here, I honestly feel you could take a more empathetic attitude towards some of societies more marginalized members.
That said, I've had enough discussions w/you to believe that you don't actually lack that empathy in the right circumstances. When talking about someone you know, or your kids know, you can find words of empathy or soften a stand
from recrimination to disappointment.
You need to be able to express that for strangers, most of whom are no worse inherently that many people you know. They are products of their circumstances. I'm not letting them off the hook for any bad choices along the way; but they deserve an attitude that expresses a desire to help them out of their mess; not insult them for being in it.