If you really feel this way so strongly why are you a self identified resident of a suburb? let me guess, you are a 20 year old student living with mom & dad and taking advantage of their incredible stupidity to be living in such a place.
Who said I'm a self-identified resident of a suburb?! Maybe you should get your facts straight before you make unsubstantiated - and by the way 'wrong' - assertions. Furthermore, do you really feel the need to sprinkle hostile insults in your posts/replies? I'm neither 20 years old...far from it, nor a suburbanite. If you have nothing of intelligent substance to add, why don't you keep your insulting negativity to yourself and spare the rest of us...please.
As for your response to the comment below, it wasn't me who made the original comment, but I do agree with it nonetheless. This is an issue of design, of 'sustainable' uses of land, of social equity, of the environment, of economics and even of aesthetics. You comment about arterial roads providing access to these strip malls completely misses the point entirely!
You can't seem to see the issue beyond the typical suburban view of 'how will I 'drive' there'! Cities should not be designed with the limited objective of making the passage of cars the only consideration in planning, especially when that form of development has obvious negative consequences as I've already mentioned, namely environmental, economic, social.
I don't understand why people like you who defend suburbia (or show such hostile contempt towards those - like myself - who argue against it using 'intelligent' well reasoned discourse by the way) have such a hard time understanding the simple idea that 'how' we live has an impact. That's all we are trying to say!
Instead of designing our spaces around the prime organizing principle of 'how do we accomodate the car', we should be designing our living spaces around pedestrians and transit, forms that do NOT have negative impacts as I've described above. Having retailers located along a main street that is both walkable AND connected to high order transit mitigates the negative impacts on all of us, including YOU. Not sure how old you are, but don't you want to breath clean air, don't you want to want to have more things accessible to you, don't you want to put time stuck in traffic behind you, don't you want to leave a better world to our children?!
THAT is what this is all about and why people like me argue against dispersed forms of development such as those found in typical suburbs.
Where do you suppose the retailers would come from, they are already established in the local strip malls and I wouldn't be surprised if many of them were already struggling..
The arterial roads for which you express such contempt provide access to these neighbourhoods, both present and in your utopian model, for your beloved Transit. You can't have both.