Balenciaga, the difference is not in beauty, it is in quality of life. Clearly, each of those houses is large, and people in North America - as in Asia I will tell you - love to have lots of space (super rich in Asia have mansions too you know, which is what all middle class people in NA tried to recreate, with a lot of success). Those houses have lots of room for green space that each person owns, they don't have people looming over you. Also, each person owns their own land and can do what they want with it (within code), and land ownership is impossible in a high rise situation - especially China, where you never really own anything.
In the end, I don't think one is necessarily superior in every way to the other, I was just illustrating the point that your "myopia" extends both ways. I actually think more density is better. You give up some things to have suburbia - like exciting street life and a more environmentally friendly life - and you gain others - like space, privacy, etc. But your attitude never sees the other side. While I don't like suburbs much myself and hated growing up in them, I don't think the way to go is to bulldoze everything and build towers of the same type, which is what would happen most likely if we destroyed our neighbourhoods. And by the way, most of the debates we are having aren't about the suburbs, but downtown Victorian suburbs, which are much more beautiful than the ones you posted, and those are the ones I would like to save - or at least modify while preserving, i.e. by having laneway hosing, infill buildings, etc. In sum, sensitive development.
But I do agree with you that we should allow a lot of height for the Mirvish towers - I don't think there is too much difference between 60 and 80. I would like to see shadowing studies and the like, but I am inclined to let it fly here, so don't take too much offence - I actually agree with you and was just joking around because of the way you put your arguments so derisively. So sorry if it was insensitive, I was in a silly mood. My suggestion is that everyone would be better off to see the other side, and that goes for those who disagree with you as well.