As for Toronto, I'm just telling you my experience from inside my community that is a perspective that you probably can't really get from the outside. It's nice that you have a good experience in some shops but that doesn't suddenly change the whole community..nor does it represent the experience that everyone has.
Jenny, while I'm sympathetic with your argument to a degree, I find it hard to agree with some of the things you've said in this thread. And just as a disclaimer, I'm sorry if I'm misinterpretted what you've been saying, this is just based on what's stood out to me. Firstly, I can empathize with this whole idea of observing the culture from the outside and experiencing it from the inside, and how the two don't always match up. While I am white and I can't possibly understand how it feels to be a racial minority in Canada/Toronto, I do come from the somewhat rare situation wherein I was raised by a Lesbian mother and now I'm gay myself. I've been in the Queer community my entire life, so I can appreciate growing up in a minority culture and experiencing all the crap you get from the outside. It's great to say Canada is the most tolerant country for Queer people, just as it is great to say we're the most racially tolerant out there, that does not mean we are as inclusive as we could or should be. It still hurt me when I found out last week a friend of a friend had been denied housing in Toronto because she was a Lesbian.
It also hurt me, as a white male, to find out about the abuses many predominantly Filipina nannies experience when they come to Ontario. When I read about the atrocious conditions those women are put through by some of the less caring agencies I thought I was going to be sick. How could stuff like that happen here? Or, how could my friend's mother be denied work because of her Spanish accent? This stuff still happens, but by and large I think (and hope) there is less tolerance here for that type of behaviour than elsewhere, especially amongst the younger generations.
A few pages back there was discussion about convenience stores in small towns and how that relates to race. Though I've never lived in a small town (though I live in Peterborough right now, which many of you might take for a small town), I have spent a good deal of time in them. I can verify that in most small towns in Ontario (at least that I have been to), convenience stores are the most likely place to encounter immigrants. I don't see this as being particularly racist. The reason you won't find many immigrants in small towns isn't because they're racist, it's for the same reason you don't see many young people in them - small towns in Ontario, generally speaking, are dying. If the people born there are leaving for larger cities and the opportunities they provide, why would immigrants move there? Why would anyone move there except maybe to retire? I'm not trying to attack small towns, but their economic viability is a crisis that is all too often ignored in Ontario. As for the reason why convenience stores in these towns often have immigrants running them, I can't give you a good reason, though I'm sure one exists. I'm also not saying racism doesn't exist in small towns (the recent attacks on Asian anglers and the pathetic response to it comes to mind).
I find it interesting that in all of this talk about racism in Ontario, very very little has been said about the racism directed towards Aboriginal peoples here that really is the greatest detractor, in my mind, to any claim on being a shining beacon of racial tolerance.
As for how this all relates to Dubai, the best way I can put it is thusly: I've never been there, but everyone I know who has lived there (who would mostly be South Asian or Filipino) left as soon as they could to come here. One friend of mine commented that the UAE was never home, but Canada is. I've heard this sentiment from many people who lived as immigrants in other communities around the world before moving here (Riyadh, various places in Europe, and even some places in the US). I think that says a lot about us, and I think we should take it as a compliment while continuing to work against racism and all forms of discrimination for that matter. I, and many other Canadians white or not, want Canada to be as inclusive as possible - can the same be said of your average Emirati?
I have a feeling that Dubai will turn out to be a lot like St. Louis in certain ways. Of all the cities I can think of right now, it is the only one which had such hype that faltered so quickly. Once upon a time it was going to be "the next Chicago." Things didn't really work out that way and it never acheived that importance. It's still there, and it's still growing, but it never fulfilled the promise it had before the Depression hit. I'm sure this recession will check the egos of many cities, Dubai included, but it will continue to grow and change. Hopefully it will learn, change, and grow in a more sustainable way, in terms of the environment, human rights, and the economy.
Just as an aside, I wonder if Europeans had any of these "oh how the mighty have fallen" moments as North American cities decayed after the Second World War (though I'd imagine they'd have bigger things on their mind, and I guess there was no Internet back then to encourage such discussion
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