I didn't want to read all 9 pages of this thread at work, so I'm sorry if I'm re-posting other people's recommendations:
You guys should watch "
A Single Man". It's really good! Who would have thought a fashion designer would be able to write and direct a movie so well on his first attempt?
The best foreign movie I've watched recently is "
The Secret in Their Eyes". OhMyGosh! SOOOOO GOOD.
Those two are both recent, i.e. from 2009 or whatever.
Here are some older movies that many people have missed, but are a must-see for people with taste.
Linklater's TAPE (2001)
Rushmore from 1998
The Killing Fields and
The Mission from early 80's - both by Roland Joffe, both fantastic. TKF is easily the best "vietnam-ish" flick of all time. For once, it focuses on the people who matter - THE CIVILIANS.
You won't believe me, but there are still a lot of people out there who haven't seen a Kubrick movie other than Full Metal Jacket. If you are one of them, immediately drop what you are doing and watch A CLOCKWORK ORANGE. Fantastic.