I should just point out that I don't actually believe anything in my previous post. I was just repeating comments that I have heard recently. I totally agree with what you are saying.
Unfortunately, most Canadians are willing to pay lip service to French Canadians and First Nations people, lots of government sponsored celebrations and unity rallies and all the rest. But when it comes down to actually doing something about it, be it granting powers of autonomy or self determination, settling land claims, adopting a constitution accepted by all people, the track record pretty much speaks for itself. The only exception has been growing support for the rights of First Nations people in Canada, though their treatment has been so degrading and oppressive for so long that it will take a long time before they are ever in an acceptable position. The case of Quebec is somewhat different in that they are in a much better position than First Nations people, but they are largely ignored by politicians and progressives across Canada, which is why you have such strong internal movements.
So going back to the whole point of the thread, I agree that ties to the monarchy should be abolished. But that won't happen because it is insulting to French Canadians and First Nations people, it will go because it becomes irrelevant to everyone elses own self interest.